Thursday, March 25, 2010

Tips For Parents:


Tips For Parents:

1.You can use or use them for consoling your known parents /patients.


2.What is our role as Parents - Talking To Your Kids About Sex


SEX EDUCATION

Tip 1: Start Early
Ideally sex education is not provided to kids in a reactionary fashion. Rather, it's given from the beginning in an indirect manner. This means the child has to have a strong sense of identity and an understanding of what his or her values are.
“Parents are going to have sit down and explain their values to their own children. And this needs to start young, before the society influences them,”

Tip 2: Give the child age-appropriate sex education
Starting to teach different topics at the right age is also important. For example, by the age of six or seven, a child must know how to clean him or herself after using the toilet.
At the age of 12 or 13, a parent can introduce the topic of menstruation for girl childSome of the topics to talk about include modesty, decency, conduct and behavior .

Tip 3: Parents should build a good relationship with their kids
Proper sex education can only be given if the correct messages are being sent There has to be openness, not a rigid and dogmatic atmosphere at home.

Tip 4: Be an example
This goes hand in hand with being a role model, which is the best way to teach and transmit values to children. That means not only should children be exposed to a healthy male-female relationship when they see their parents. It also means parents do not engage in activities which undermine their views on sexuality.

Tip 5: Get involved with your children's school
Regular participation in such school organizations and activities gives you a voice as a parent to express your views about what's going on in the school system as it affects your child, as well as others' children.

Tip 6: Know the sex education territory
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t is necessary to find out what is included in the sex education curriculum.

Tip 7: Tell your kids you're available to talk to them about sex
”Main hu na” This is necessary, especially if sex has been a taboo subject in the household for so long. Parents [should] say to their children “I want to be your primary source of information about sex,”
This makes it clear that while your child may be getting information about sex from other sources like television, the movies, school and friends, you are the “authoritative source”.
This is done best when discussed at a younger age, rather than waiting for the teen years when rebelliousness usually kicks in and kids are less likely to listen to parents.

Tip 8: Express your nervousness
It will be hard to talk about sex for many parents. But they should not hide this from their kids. Morris recommends parents say, “If I sound nervous or uncomfortable just bear with me,” in the course of their conversation. This stresses the seriousness of the topic and the importance of what you want to say. The fact that this is so difficult for you, yet you are going forward with it emphasizes your child's need to listen.

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